My wife has been meeting men on a no-strings-sex site and going for champagne lunches and shopping trips prior to having sex with them at hotels round the city.
I’m heartbroken. We’re both 33 and have been married 10 years, with an eight-year-old son. I hadn’t got a clue what she was up to. I’m a roofer. We were rained off one day recently so I went home before lunch. I was shocked to find my wife dressed to the nines in high heels and stockings. She looked amazing.
She said she’d made arrangements to meet a friend and wouldn’t cancel. Then a phone rang in her bag – one I didn’t recognise. I asked her about it and she stormed out. I followed her down the street and she told me she’d met a rich banker and was leaving me. I grabbed her and she screamed to passers-by that I was molesting her. They called the police and she jumped into a taxi and left. I was suicidal.
Back home I turned the house upside down. I found the phone bills she’d hidden for the secret phone. There were around 300 text messages to half a dozen different men about meeting up with them. From the references it was clear she’d met them on a nostrings sex website.
Next I started getting explicit pics of my wife on my phone from an unknown number, and vile messages of what this man was going to do to her. I sat crying and drinking myself into a stupor. My wife phoned three hours later in bits. She said the man she was with was vile to her and had sent the messages without her knowledge.
When she told him to stop he became abusive and threatening. He said he’d secretly filmed everything and called her a stupid porn actress We’re living together but I can’t even look at her.
Every day now I get disgusting new pics and messages about my wife. What happened to my beautiful, sweet wife, where did she go? What do I do now?